Facebook

So I just now realized that someone defriended me on FB.  Here's the thing... I just found out.  So obviously I didn't care about the person enough to notice until now.  But I am seriously confused about why.   Mostly because anybody that has a facebook account, unless they are monitored by their parents and under 18, has atleast one person on there profile that is not actually their "friend".  I mean let's be real.  I just looked at my account and I have 314 "friends".  NOT.  I'm sorry if this will make people defriend me, but not all 314 people can actually be considered a friend.  Some are,...and some are family, but mostly they are people I kinda know, have known in the past, or know pretty well.  And all of them are my "FB friends" because I'm interested in their lives and what they've made of it.  So for someone to defriend me, it's like saying, "Hey, I really considered you a friend...now I don't. I could care less about you and your family, or what happens to you from now on."  I don't think I've ever thought about anyone that way in my entire life.... Even the people that aren't my "FB friends."  So I couldn't help but laugh at first, because really, who cares enough to defriend someone on FB (or has the time to be that petty), but after that... I have to admit... it did kinda hurt.  And now I'm sitting here thinking...."I still don't even know what I did!!!" And even that seems a bit funny.  Because if I don't even know what I did, and I didn't even notice I was defriended...then did I really care about this person in the first place???  Yes.  Yes I did.  But apparently not enough to consider them anything more than a FB friend :o)  So maybe I've lost nothing.  I don't know.  Maybe Facebook will tell me. It seems to regulate my interpersonal relationships more than I ever expected it to....